• Juliette C. Morgan

    SEXOLOGICAL BODYWORK

Massage

Sensual Massage & Tantra

I invite you to experience my abundant offering of massage rituals. Together, we can find out which experience seduces you into letting go and which elements bring aliveness and sensuality to your body.

Some massages, such as mapping help you get to know your own body better. Other massages invite ecstasy, trance states – or even educational two-way touch or interaction.

Other special massage forms, such as the bossy massage, offer you a learning environment in which you can practise expressing your desires or setting boundaries. My approach is trauma-sensitive and process-oriented and we remain in constant communication throughout the massage.

Get to know your genitals (better)

How well do you know your own genitals? If I asked you to draw them or describe them in detail, how accurately could you reproduce their shape, texture or particular features? I will support you in getting to know your genitals in a new way, perceiving them as if it were the first time. I invite you to find a new way of connecting – through guided meditation, touch, looking with a mirror (or even a speculum), naming the different parts or aspects of your genitals, and by witnessing and celebrating your genitals with you in a non-judgmental, appreciative setting.

*All genital configurations are welcome in my sessions. At the beginning of the session, I will ask how you refer to your genitals and will use your own chosen terms throughout the session.

Genital Talk

What would your genitals say if they could talk? How do they feel about your relationship with them? Do they feel seen, heard, noticed, integrated into your life?

Do you give them enough attention, enough space? Do they have any wishes they would share with you if you took time to chat with them?

I will guide you to enter into direct dialogue with your genitals, to ask questions, listen to the answers and invite surprise and wonder.

Connecting your genitals with your whole body

Sometimes it is difficult to even feel your genitals. They are supposed to function, even ‘perform’ from time to time, but otherwise they are often hardly noticed. Or they are so present that the rest of the body recedes into the background.

How are your genitals embedded in your entire body? Do they feel integrated, part of the whole, valued and accepted? How is your energy distributed throughout your body?

Through mindful touch and with a focus on the connection between all body centres (head, heart, abdomen/pelvic floor), I support you in feeling relaxation and vitality throughout your entire body.

Genital mapping (internal and external)

‘Mapping’ means creating a map. Through my touch and our communication during the process, I support you in becoming more aware of your genitals, point by point, layer by layer. What previously felt like a flat surface becomes a fine network of different sensations, finely differentiated. This makes your genitals more sensitive and tangible.

Emotions that are held in the body are given space and attention. The different sensations are perceived without hierarchy, without judgement. Perhaps there is numbness in one place, arousal in another, pain elsewhere, while a breath away you feel a pleasant warmth. We linger where you want to focus your attention.

Genital meditation

 

Our genitals are often only touched when a certain reaction is expected – usually either urination or arousal. This can sometimes feel like a ‘cold start’. Or like running a marathon without training beforehand.

So-called ‘unintentional touch’ can be very beneficial. I slowly and mindfully repeat a massage stroke (chosen by you). This allows your genitals to experience a new kind of touch, receiving loving attention without anything being expected of them. In this relaxed state, your genitals can recharge, free from the pressure of expectations. The repetition relaxes your nervous system and sensitizes your genitals.

Anal mapping and exploration

 

The anus is often associated with shame. It can also be a source of tension, sometimes trauma, but it also has great potential for pleasure and enjoyment. We will first focus on the external area, starting with the rosette, and later the anus from the inside, if desired. I will support you in first perceiving what is there in the moment. Through gentle touch, I will invite you to perceive tension and let it go. Together, we explore if arousal may be present. Or perhaps groundedness, acceptance, a sense of well-being.

Anal meditation

I repeat – slow and focused – a single touch (chosen by you) on the anus. In doing so, I invite your nervous system to relax as your body knows exactly what to expect.

As with meditation, you may experience different states: relaxation, boredom, arousal, curiosity, impatience or a sense of well-being. It may feel like a relaxed trance state. There is a connection between the anus and the vagus nerve, which responds positively to slow touch. The state of deep relaxation that often occurs can have many beneficial effects on the entire system.

Anal meditation is also a wonderful preparation for anal (& prostate) massage.

Anal (& prostate) massage

The anus – often overlooked and for many an unknown realm, is sometimes associated with shame or insecurity. Yet this part of the body holds great potential for deep relaxation as well as pleasure and arousal. Treat yourself to a soothing or stimulating massage for your anus – regardless of whether you already know and appreciate your anus or want to gently build up a new relationship to it.

Pleasure Mapping (genitals or whole body)

Together, we will create a ‘pleasure map’ of your body. Which places do you already know? What kind of touch on which part of your body triggers feelings of well-being, pleasure, perhaps even arousal? Are there places that are still undiscovered? What kind of touch is most pleasurable and where would a different kind of touch be more suitable?

The better you know your body, the more deeply you can enjoy it – with yourself or together with another person.

Slow Touch Massage

 

Using long, slow strokes (with or without oil), I invite your body into deep relaxation. You can let go and surrender completely. Supported by breath and – if desired – sound, I guide your body into a restful state. The genitals can be included in the massage, if wished. Here, too, you are invited to let go of all expectations and active impulses. This loving, unintentional touch in slow motion connects your body as a whole and heightens your perception and sensitivity.

Bossy Massage (based on the work of Betty Martin)

Together with the Wheel of Consent and the 3 Minute Game, Betty Martin’s Bossy Massage is a core method in my work with somatic sex coaching.

With this method, you have the opportunity to receive the massage you have always dreamed of. The aim of this somatic exercise is for you to express your wishes as precisely as possible and to constantly adjust my touch during the massage. In this exercise, you are encouraged to be ‘bossy’ (‘give instructions / make demands’). Do you dare to correct me if I don’t carry out your instructions as you meant them, or do you tend to ‘tolerate’ a touch that you imagined to be gentler, firmer, spread over a wider area, more precise or completely different?

I always remind you by asking: ‘How is the pressure? How is the speed? Is this the place you meant?’ And even if it feels ‘very nice’, I may ask: ‘How could it be even better?’

It goes without saying that you not only receive a massage tailored to your needs, but also learn to express your wishes and ask for what is good (and even better…) for you.