• Juliette C. Morgan

    SEXOLOGICAL BODYWORK

Tantra & Massage

Sensual Massage & Genital Exploration

I invite you to experience my abundant offering of massage rituals. Together, we can find out which experience seduces you into letting go and which elements bring aliveness and sensuality to your body.

Some massages, such as mapping help you get to know your own body better. Other massages invite ecstasy, trance states – or even educational two-way touch or interaction.

Other special massage forms, such as the bossy massage, offer you a learning environment in which you can practise expressing your desires or setting boundaries. My approach is trauma-sensitive and process-oriented and we remain in constant communication throughout the massage.

Abdominal massage & pelvic relaxation

This massage focuses on your abdomen and pelvic floor. It can also include other parts of the body, such as the lower back, legs and feet, to support the deeper release of your pelvic floor muscles. I use elements from Chi Nei Tsang & Karsei Nei Tsang massage (according to Mantak Chia) and Holistic Bodywork (according to Pascal Beaumart).

Sometimes deep-seated tension (and emotion) can be released through internal touch and massage. My approach is based on my ongoing Pelvic Practitioner Training (Beaudoin Bodywork), my extensive education in Sexological Bodywork and Somatic Sexology (ISB Berlin & ISS Australia), as well Deamouring seminars with Rahi Chun.

Get to know your genitals (better)

How well do you know your own genitals? If I asked you to draw them or describe them in detail, how accurately could you reproduce their shape, texture or particular features? I will support you in getting to know your genitals in a new way, perceiving them as if it were the first time. I invite you to find a new way of connecting – through guided meditation, touch, looking with a mirror (or even a speculum), naming the different parts or aspects of your genitals, and by witnessing and celebrating your genitals with you in a non-judgmental, appreciative setting.

*All genital configurations are welcome in my sessions. At the beginning of the session, I will ask how you refer to your genitals and will use your own chosen terms throughout the session.

Genital Talk

What would your genitals say if they could talk? How do they feel about your relationship with them? Do they feel seen, heard, noticed, integrated into your life?

Do you give them enough attention, enough space? Do they have any wishes they would share with you if you took time to chat with them?

I will guide you to enter into direct dialogue with your genitals, to ask questions, listen to the answers and invite surprise and wonder.

Connecting your genitals with your body

Sometimes it is difficult to even feel your genitals. They are supposed to function, even ‘perform’ from time to time, but otherwise they are often hardly noticed. Or they are so present that the rest of the body recedes into the background.

How are your genitals embedded in your entire body? Do they feel integrated, part of the whole, valued and accepted? How is your energy distributed throughout your body?

Through mindful touch and with a focus on the connection between all body centres (head, heart, abdomen/pelvic floor), I support you in feeling relaxation and vitality throughout your entire body.

Genital mapping (internal and external)

‘Mapping’ means creating a map. Through my touch and our communication during the process, I support you in becoming more aware of your genitals, point by point, layer by layer. What previously felt like a flat surface becomes a fine network of different sensations, finely differentiated. This makes your genitals more sensitive and tangible.

Emotions that are held in the body are given space and attention. The different sensations are perceived without hierarchy, without judgement. Perhaps there is numbness in one place, arousal in another, pain elsewhere, while a breath away you feel a pleasant warmth. We linger where you want to focus your attention.

Genital meditation

Our genitals are often only touched when a certain reaction is expected – usually either urination or arousal. This can sometimes feel like a ‘cold start’. Or like running a marathon without training beforehand.

So-called ‘unintentional touch’ can be very beneficial. I slowly and mindfully repeat a massage stroke (chosen by you). This allows your genitals to experience a new kind of touch, receiving loving attention without anything being expected of them. In this relaxed state, your genitals can recharge, free from the pressure of expectations. The repetition relaxes your nervous system and sensitizes your genitals.

Anal mapping and exploration

The anus is often associated with shame. It can also be a source of tension, sometimes trauma, but it also has great potential for pleasure and enjoyment. We will first focus on the external area, starting with the rosette, and later the anus from the inside, if desired. I will support you in first perceiving what is there in the moment. Through gentle touch, I will invite you to perceive tension and let it go. Together, we explore if arousal may be present. Or perhaps groundedness, acceptance, a sense of well-being.

Anal meditation

I repeat – slow and focused – a single touch (chosen by you) on the anus. In doing so, I invite your nervous system to relax as your body knows exactly what to expect.

As with meditation, you may experience different states: relaxation, boredom, arousal, curiosity, impatience or a sense of well-being. It may feel like a relaxed trance state. There is a connection between the anus and the vagus nerve, which responds positively to slow touch. The state of deep relaxation that often occurs can have many beneficial effects on the entire system.

Anal meditation is also a wonderful preparation for anal (& prostate) massage.

Anal (& prostate) massage

The anus – often overlooked and for many an unknown realm, is sometimes associated with shame or insecurity. Yet this part of the body holds great potential for deep relaxation as well as pleasure and arousal. Treat yourself to a soothing or stimulating massage for your anus – regardless of whether you already know and appreciate your anus or want to gently build up a new relationship to it.

Pleasure Mapping (full body)

Together, we will create a ‘pleasure map’ of your body. Which places do you already know? What kind of touch on which part of your body triggers feelings of well-being, pleasure, perhaps even arousal? Are there places that are still undiscovered? What kind of touch is most pleasurable and where would a different kind of touch be more suitable?

The better you know your body, the more deeply you can enjoy it – with yourself or together with another person.

Slow Touch Massage

Using long, slow strokes (with or without oil), I invite your body into deep relaxation. You can let go and surrender completely. Supported by breath and – if desired – sound, I guide your body into a restful state. The genitals can be included in the massage, if wished. Here, too, you are invited to let go of all expectations and active impulses. This loving, unintentional touch in slow motion connects your body as a whole and heightens your perception and sensitivity.

Bossy Massage (from Betty Martin)

Together with the Wheel of Consent and the 3 Minute Game, Betty Martin’s Bossy Massage is a core method in my work with somatic sex coaching.

With this method, you have the opportunity to receive the massage you have always dreamed of. The aim of this somatic exercise is for you to express your wishes as precisely as possible and to constantly adjust my touch during the massage. In this exercise, you are encouraged to be ‘bossy’ (‘give instructions / make demands’). Do you dare to correct me if I don’t carry out your instructions as you meant them, or do you tend to ‘tolerate’ a touch that you imagined to be gentler, firmer, spread over a wider area, more precise or completely different?

I always remind you by asking: ‘How is the pressure? How is the speed? Is this the place you meant?’ And even if it feels ‘very nice’, I may ask: ‘How could it be even better?’

It goes without saying that you not only receive a massage tailored to your needs, but also learn to express your wishes and ask for what is good (and even better…) for you.

Erotic Massage Dancing

Erotic Massage Dancing (developed by Josef Kramer) is a type of massage in which I invite you to ‘actively’ receive, to guide my touch while playing with your breath, your voice and your movement.

I practise the various modalities with you beforehand: breathing techniques for activation and regulation, freeing the voice or guiding sound through the body, as well as movement options that promote active receiving.

This gives the massage – which you can receive lying, sitting or standing – movement and momentum, which I support with my touch. If you wish, I will also breathe, dance and sound with you to ‘fuel’ the activating energy. A shared dance unfolds – with me as the masseuse and you as the recipient. Together we celebrate your erotic energy.

During the massage, I remind you of your intention, as well as the three elements of breath, movement and voice, and I support you in staying present so that you can consciously perceive the vitality and erotic resonance throughout your entire body.

Erotic Massage Dancing supports erotic self-regulation as well as the refinement and prolongation of states of arousal and trance.

Touch Coaching

I am happy to guide you if you would like to learn these massage and touch techniques yourself. If you wish, you can bring someone to practise with to the session. As part of a longer freestyle coaching session (6 hours), it is also possible to practise with me. I will gently introduce you to the methods and encourage your learning by giving you direct feedback on your touch.

Kinky Tantra, BDDSM & Interactive Massage

Perhaps you simply want to lie back and relax. Your learning field is devotion, letting go of all activity. Nevertheless, you may desire a stronger – or more playful – stimulus to some body parts, in order to let go completely. In a sensual BDSM massage, elements of bondage/restraint, impact, toys or sensory deprivation can be integrated into the ritual.

If you would like to incorporate what you have learned from massage & touch coaching into a sensual-erotic interactive massage, I am happy to support you. In a two-way touch setting, I am able to give you encouragement and constructive feedback from the receiving role. I only offer this in the context of touch coaching.

Certified Tantra Massage

Trained by AnandaWave, TMV certified (Tantra Massage Association)

Tantra massage is particularly close to my heart. It has a magic that is often difficult to put into words—a magic of depth, sensuality, awareness, and loving presence. Tantra can be deeply arousing and at the same time calming, liberating, and healing.

In my space for bodywork and tantra massage in Berlin, I invite you to open up—physically, emotionally, and energetically. Tantra massage is nourishing and connecting. It offers a safe place where all your feelings are welcome: Lightheartedness, passion, joy, and excitement as well as silence, sadness, longing, or deep sensing.

I work with full-body touch, stretching, opening, relaxing, and activating. I touch you firmly and intensely, but also gently and playfully. I hold and envelop you. During the massage, I will encourage you to breathe, vibrate, and move.

Vulva, yoni, and lingam touch can be incorporated into the ritual. If you do not use such terms to describe your genitals, please share your chosen names, so that I can use these mindfully.

If desired, I also include internal work in longer massages, such as massage of the mouth and anus. I am careful and sensitive when massaging the prostate, remaining in communication, especially you are new to prostate massage. However, if you are an experienced recipient and would like to go deeper in the anal massage, I will also enthusiastically go there with you.

Traditionally, tantra is understood as a ritual of devotion. I perceive you as a whole being, beautiful and complete, exactly as you are. I honor and celebrate every aspect of you through my touch and loving presence. I invite you to arrive fully in the moment. A feeling of security—as well as desire and pleasure—can arise when you feel safe and accepted, with your whole body and your whole being.

Our tantric encounter can be very intimate. I work with my whole body and we are both naked during the massage. If you would prefer less closeness, to be covered completely or partially with a sarong, or to have particular parts of your body excluded in the massage—or included in a special way—you are welcome to let me know. Perhaps you would like special attention given to particular body parts such as the face, hands, or feet.

I am warm-hearted and professional. I value clear communication and will co-create the space and your experience together with you.