Erotic Coaching expanded
– with interactive touch
Sometimes it can be helpful to put your theoretical learning into practice, to experiment with sexual communication or your touch skills with an experienced partner, to learn more about female anatomy on a living body, or to explore challenges in your sexuality (e.g. erection or orgasm) in an intimate setting without any pressure to perform.
Perhaps you have little or no experience with intimate encounters, or you are unsure how to get to know someone new after a long-term relationship has ended, how to ask someone out on a date, or even how to go on a date yourself. When it comes to the art of seduction, you may feel clueless or like an inexperienced teenager.
Or you may be confident in your sexuality, perhaps even spending a lot of time on dating apps or in casual erotic encounters, but you notice that you are losing touch: with yourself, with your partner, with your authentic desire and your true wishes. Even if you are completely satisfied with your sex life, you may want to discover something new and expand your wealth of experience with some hands-on practice.
Through playful, somatic exercises or massage elements, we can explore together with mutual touch and discover ways to expand your capacity for pleasure and sensual awareness, as well as your potential to invite pleasure and enjoyment in your partner.
Touch coaching & sensual massage
– with interactive touch
We will explore what kind of touch activates your sensual, pleasure-body and together we see if we can expand that spectrum, looking for ways for you to immerse yourself more deeply in enjoyment.
I will teach you which kinds of touch generate a feeling of well-being and sensual pleasure for me. Through feedback, guidance and encouragement, I will support you in experimenting with active, sensual touch in a confident, playful and communicative way.
Sacred Intimate Sessions
– with interactive touch
Intimacy, closeness, lust and ecstasy. With mindfulness and a conscious, caring approach, I guide you in discovering and developing your erotic energy. As a muse, mentor and lover, I support you in finding your very own erotic expression, beyond taboos and social ideas of how things should be. For this type of guidance, I consciously invite in my own erotic energy, but the focus remains on your learning experience.
The sessions can be playful, passionate and fun, but also gentle and slow-paced. We remain in constant communication and work together to develop a sensual, pleasurable or even tender, intimate experience based on your learning desires.
The term Sacred Intimate originates from the United States and refers to a person who uses their own sexual energy in a conscious, caring, professional framework, with the aim of supporting the potential for sexual pleasure and joy for life in their client. Sexuality is understood here as a healing, nourishing, vital force. The sessions can sometimes take place in co-operation with or by recommendation of the client’s therapist.
* Sacred intimacy in a coaching context is different from prostitution/sexwork.
To avoid misunderstandings, I would like to differentiate here:
In this coaching context, I support you with a learning goal. I use a process-oriented approach and develop the session together with you. Requesting specific “services” in advance is not appropriate in this context, and I would ask you to respect this. However, I would be delighted if you would share your challenges, learning goals, research interests or curiosity with me.
If you want to be erotically pampered, sit back and enjoy the consensual fulfilment of your sexual desires, a sexwork session would be appropriate, but not a coaching or sacred intimate session. Sex work is legal in Germany, and I wholeheartedly value and support this profession and those who practise it.
Shared self-love ritual
Together, we will explore ways to transform habitual masturbation patterns into a creative, embodied practice of self-love. We will invite our whole body, our senses and our joy in experimentation, activating our sensual, erotic powers through breathing, movement, voice and touch, while also welcoming slowness, silence and gentle touch.
Self-love or masturbation is something that tends to be practised alone or even in secret. it is often a means to an end, to help one fall asleep or to relieve everyday stress. Sometimes it is practised at high speed, possibly with the help of pornography, leaving little room for real sensation. The favoured technique, which has often served since childhood or adolescence, is repeated over and over again, sometimes even creating listlessness or boredom.
Developing your own conscious, embodied self-love practice can open up a whole new relationship with your body and your sensuality, bringing more joy and connection to yourself in everyday life.
